I think the AAHA should have an open forum where parents can spit ball ideas to improve the sport. I think a lot of time parents are left out of the equation and we have good ideas that can stir debate and then a consensus is reached. I think the rink owners, especially the for profit rinks, are too powerful. Parents need a say and having parents that have older kids speak out is helpful because they have been around longer. I look at the status of youth sports (not just hockey) in the us and so many kids are getting priced out. To reach the top level in hockey, soccer, baseball, field hockey, lacrosse and other sports you have to play club. Club sports cost a ton of money and travel is a huge add on cost. Snyder hockey is free but the coaching is not the best. Football and Basketball are still 2 sports kids can play in school and in basketball playing on a club team, sponsors pay for almost everything. I think we miss so many kids that are great athletes and would love hockey because of price. We miss too many athletes that would improve the game.
Getting back to AAA, most rinks have the coaches pick the team. This leads to too many coaches picking kids they like or kids that are really good, but not team players. Look at PHC last season- 2014 has a kid traveling 1hr45min from near Toms River, 2013 has kid 2 hrs near Sea Bright and 2hrs in Staten Island, 2012 had a kid from CT and 2011 had kids from Staten Island (2), Maryland (2), Brooklyn (1) and Dallas TX (1). How is this representative of Hollydell's rink? Aren't there AAA teams these kids can play for closer to home? This is what I mean by restricting kids to rinks in a geographic area. Little Flyers has kids Virginia, Maryland, North Jersey at multiple levels. Same for Jr. Flyers. How is this good for the kids at those rinks or ice hockey? Will kids who are middle of the road AAA players get pushed out because these rinks brought in "superstars" form 2+ hrs away?
I have 5 kids. Their main sports are- 2 play ice hockey, 2 play soccer and 1 does not play sports. Soccer is bad, but they play on club teams, travel a lot, but every kid is within 45 minutes of the club location. Ice hockey kids have 4 kids on both teams that are 2+ hrs away from the rink. How is this good? It also gives a false impression that the rink is a good development rink when these AAA teams recruit kids from other rinks so naive parents get duped into thinking there rink can develop their kid. PHC had their 2012 & 2011 teams fall apart. LF had huge turnover at 2013 and 2012 level. Jr F is a mess at all but 2012 age. Choice has hurt these rinks and their reputations, but they still sucker parents into thinking their rinks are great. I am not sure what the solution is, but I 100% sure there is a huge problem with SE PA and SJ ice hockey!