Former daddy coach here. The nicest thing any parent said to me was, “If it wasn’t for the name on the back of the jersey, I would have never guessed your son was on the team because you treated everyone the same.” I never spoke to my kids on the bench. If I had something critical to say, I would ask another coach to say something to my son. When I was an assistant coach on my sons’ teams, I would coach the defense because my sons played forward to avoid impartiality. When the team voted for captains, I would ask the head coach not to make my sons a captain for fear of parent backlash. One coach said, “The team voted, not the coaches. It would be unfair to your son to not respect the kids’ votes.”