After 10+ years, my son is ready to hang up playing travel hockey. We’ve experienced house, tier 2, and tier 1. It’s sad to think about but that decision rests solely with him. 😢
IMO, the main reason to play tier 1 is to advance your hockey career, be it playing in juniors, scholarships for D1 college, professionally at some level, and etc. Playing tier 1 will possibly give you exposure to other opportunities.
The next question you have to ask is how realistic is it? In this area, it’s like less than 0.5%.
There are 4 main characteristics that a successful player must have: Skill, Size, Smarts, and Heart.
Everybody focuses on Skill and think if the player is the fastest or can shoot the hardest that’s his ticket. It’s only one piece of the pie.
If your son won’t reach at least 5’10 on offense or 6’ on defense forget about it. Johnny Gaudreau comes around once in a million.
Your son has to have the ability to recognize a thousand options and choose the best one in milliseconds and understand the team concept. Some kids try to shoot the puck from behind the net and bank it off the back of goalie’s head even though three guys are wide open in front. It’s about the team scoring rather than personal glory.
One of the most overlooked is heart. Sounds corny, but he should love the game. He should want to be the best and put in the work to get there.
Very few players possess all of these characteristics and parents don’t like to admit it. IMO, stick with tier 2 and have your son enjoy the game for what it is. It’s easy to get sucked in and try to keep up with others. In the end, kids either quit before they graduate from high school for various reasons or graduation from high school ends their hockey career. Can you imagine taking the money you would have spent and placed into a 529 or college savings account?