All NJ Ice Hockey parents and players have terrible reputations. Other States complain about NJ in articles, books and online. NJ parents need to clean up their acts! Kids follow the leads of parents and coaches. I am at my third rink in 3 years due to former rinks cultures. My new rink seems to have it figured out, but I have witnessed things already that are giving me pause. This is youth sports and parents take it way too seriously. From coaches arguing with refs, to parents yelling at refs, to parents arguing and fighting each other. Wake up and realize little Timmy has a 2% chance to play in college and a .0001% chance to play in the NHL. Concentrate on raising decent, respectful human beings and our sport and country will be better off! Everyone needs to realize not everyone gets to have their kids play ice hockey. Some people can't even afford food. Please get some perspective!