As a very experienced coach that knows his limitations I will try to address all of the statements. My philosophy is to teach the fundamentals of the game and game play. This includes individual skills such as skating, stick handling, and PASSING. I emphasize a team game by working on passing, support, positional play, forechecking and backchecking, etc. When this is done correctly you will see the results on the ice. I believe in rolling lines evenly and will only occasionally stack a line for opportunities such as a powerplay or last minute to tie/win. My goal as a coach is to teach the game to the kids, help foster their love for the game, make sure they enjoy coming to the rink, and prepare them in practices for games. Many, many, many parents think we need to scrimmage 45 minutes per practice. The kids get much more out of dozens and dozens of puck touches and skill development than scrimmaging all the time.
I do NOT agree that the ADM should only be used for A and below. AA and AAA should still be following the proven principles of the ADM. There is a reason so many AA teams can whip AAA teams in their own rinks. That's because I see our AA teams following the ADM.
My personal complaint about coaching is selecting kids from evals simply because you've had them since Mites. Year after year I see deserving kids overlooked because the coach has his "kids".