dont follow the herd, see "lemmings"
let your kid have fun and grow in skill - pay for a skating coach instead.
or do you want to burn your kid out?
I can only tell you where not to go, and I did that already.
Not all Tier 1 programs are equal and not all teams within a Tier 1 program are equal. Everything depends on the coaching. You can get a great skating coach or a taction hell bent on running a system. You can get a program that concentrates on skating and costs the same as Tier 2 with skating coach. One thing is certain, Tier 1 & Tier 2 all play crazy amount of games and travel is brutal for all teams, especially AAA & AA. There is not much difference between the levels for travel anymore, unless you get in a Tier 1 program that goes to Buffalo, Chicago, Detroit or other places. You need to compare apples to apples though. You get way more for your tuition at Tier 1 but the cost is about 25-30% more. So at Tier 2 factor in tuition, extra skating lessons, private sessions, spring skates, summer camp, and off ice work. I guarantee Tier 1 is a better buy, but burnout is a problem. Most likely the best choice is PBK. Littler Flyers and Jr. Flyers probably have 95% of the team set. There might be 1 spot open. PBK should have 3-4 spots open. Good luck!