OP here:
It definitely was "a" Hollydell coach that came off the bench. Not a Rockets coach. He came off the Hollydell bench, sprinted cross ice (quite adeptly - mind you), and ran into the Hollydell side of the bleachers to retrieve his son (who was sitting with the HD folks). Then he claimed his son was assaulted. No video proof. And most likely, the poor kid was pushed by HD belligerents....
Now that you mention it, I think the HD HC was wearing a white shirt or jacket. This guy was wearing a black hat and black jacket.
Also, Rockets parents were almost as bad as HD parents before the fight. The cowbells alone.... But from my count: 4 HD moms threw punches, 1 Hollydell dad threw punches, 1 Hollydell dad tossed Jimmy Snuka --and on the Rockets side: 1 Rockets minor fan grabbed a lady, 1 Rockets dad inadvertently caused two HD moms to fall as he himself was being pulled and thrown to the ground. The rest of the Rockets crew pretty much behaved themselves while coming to the aid of their unwise colleague.
You are correct, the Rockets fans were pretty terrible.....who goes over to the other side to cheer obnoxiously?

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