Why does this topic always come up? Everyone knows the odds are slim to none for making the NHL and near that for getting a D1 scholarship. The math is pretty simple. Also simple, is understanding that those with the most exposure to coaches/scouts as they are older (i.e. not SQ or PW) will have the better chance of getting looks. Let's face it, D1 scouts aren't coming to the Aston Memorial Day tournament to watch the 16U A Division.
It's okay to "live in the now" and enjoy the ride. Nothing wrong with playing on a Top 20 AAA team in the country (be it 1st line or 4th line). Nothing wrong with playing on a 10W-50L AAA team. Nothing wrong with playing A or B level hockey. (Though there is probably something wrong with people playing their kids down.) Enjoy the ride people.